Prince Charming?

Forget about Prince Charming’s royal status and all the crap they fed you in fairy tales; it’s just the charming part that should matter.

You see, charming has no universal standard. If he can blow your mind and sweep you off your feet then he is your charming one.

There are no standards in choices, because we humans are not standard. We are different, and thus want or need different things. I, for one, never cared for physical attributes. Some features could be a plus on the score, but their lack makes absolutely no difference. I have some friends whose vision of a “man” is that tall well-built guy with the six packs. Well, I’d like to see what those six packs will do for you when he’s seventy (unless he’s Chuck Norris!). A nice personality, on the other hand, never goes out of date.

My advice for everybody is to be like a zombie; go for the brains. When I say brains, I don’t mean smart ones with an IQ over 130 and three different degrees. No, what I mean is someone with a mindset suitable to yours. I read somewhere before that a good couple should be able to look in the same direction and not only at each other.

Of course, some people can’t help but “fall” in love, but one must be careful about some little details. Do your homework; learn how and if it will work. You see, a relationship is not all about flowers and expensive dinners followed by a walk on the beach; that’s just the shallow image they sell us in movies. I am not saying these things are bad (especially flowers; flowers are awesome), but that’s not the main course; it’s just a side dish (or dessert, if you like!). In other words; it’s the outcome of doing it right.

To all you people out there, be you single or with someone, happily or sadly. . . To everyone; Happy Valentine’s Day!

Golden rules!

The meaning of a home. . .

And then there’s gotta be some adrenaline to keep things going!

And for all the long-distanced ones out there, hold on!